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Monday, November 06, 2006
Live for yourself, not for others
Sometimes you wonder to yourself,
Why things have to turn out this way..
The more you wish for something to happen, the more it doesnt..
The more hopeful you are, the more you bound to despair..
You might try to live a more "colourful, exciting, interesting," life then others..
You might try to make people "envy" you..
But at the end of the day.. Is that really the kind of life you want to lead?
The more you try to "live better" then others, the "less happy" you become..
At the end of the day, is it worth it?
All your "actions", were just to "win the attention" of that somebody..
But, all you get is nothing but disappointment.
Even if you do get that attention, do you think you will be happy? - Nah.. you will be more hurt ya..
So now what.. you ended up with nothing..
Try too hard and you will end up with nothing..
True friends stay with you regardles of what kind of life you lead..
You dont need to impress friends..
But it doesnt means you can take them for granted..
To those who have been taking your friends for granted:
You might think its not necessary to put in extra effort in pleasing your good friends, but sometimes, they might be the ones that needed the most extra effort ya..
Its kind of tiring for someone to give and not recieve.
The heart gets abit unbalanced and it will starts to tilt to one side.
By then, it might be too late..
To those who have been taken for granted:
Take a rest if you are tired..
But to have been giving so much and long to actually feel that "strain", that friend must be quite important to you.. And must be worth giving right.. You might have felt "worthless" and "unappreciated", but remember, there are idiots in this world.. *wink*
I do felt being taken for granted, but I am taking others for granted..
Life is unfair, but it is also fair..
posted by Elephant on 11:52 PM
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