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Friday, August 11, 2006
Enlightenment Please
Lately I've been asking myself this question:
Is it better to be someone who is independent or is it better to be someone who is dependent on other...
After rounds and rounds of thinking..
I still yet to get an answer...
To be independent is tiring in long run..
To be depending on others is irritating..
Which means, it shld be either
1) A balance of both
or
2) Based in situation
But I've realised, its not easy to switch between both ya..
Not because u dunch wish to, shld rather, because no chance to.
After being independent for a long time, pple tends to be so used to u being like that, and when suddenly u want to be dependent on others;
1) They become helpless
2) U dunch have a chance to depend on them, because they assume u can take care of urself, and gave/kept the chance to others whom had always be not independent..
3) U dunch know the way to "depend" on others..
4) Because they are so used to u being independent, they didnt realised that u actually wanted to depend on them...
But, if was the other way round, because u have been constantly depending on others, and when u want to be independent;
1) They wont trust u to know how to handle urself
2) U wont have a chance, because it had already been taken care of..
3) Because they are so used to u being dependent, they didnt realised that u can actually be independent..
See.. Complicated right..
No wonder I still can find the perfect answer..
Hai~
Enlightenment please!
posted by Elephant on 12:20 AM
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